One of my friends came to report that a pipe was leaking. I'd known the pipe had been dodgy for the last week but she told me water was coming through the ceiling, which made things a little more urgent...
So much for an evening in the park.
After about an hour of prodding and lifting floor boards, shouting down two floors and reaching into impossible places, we got the problem sorted.
And I'm glad we got the pipe fixed together. It was good working with the sister, she's a very practical sort of person and a friend I cherish. But occasionally it can be difficult to reach past that practical side of her nature.
It's not only this friend in particular, it can be all friendships in a community life which struggle to get past this obstacle. Community is a very practical thing in some ways. We deliberately share our possessions, our money, our space, our transport so that we can share our lives. But community isn't only sharing things on a practical level - it has to go beyond that - it's sharing the smallest of joys, a greeting on the stairs, a frustration over a problem, a silent moment.
If life together is only shared practically then community does not exist, but if in each moment you can savour the privilege of working together (a thank-you for the lift or the meal, an invitation to share in an activity together, through every small encouragement) then you will be able to fix a lot more than broken piping, you can also fix broken hearts.
Encourage one another every day
Hebrews 3
Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works.
And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another
Hebrews 10
As a busy person, one of the things I like about community is the ablity just to be. Busy times, chatty times, quiet times just to be in.
ReplyDeleteNice one! I remember my first introduction to community was spending several days at New Creation Hall in Bugbrooke, clearing out some woodland scrub and making a huge bonfire. Hard work, togetherness, tea and toast with praise. At one point I wondered how hot the fire must be in the middle, and a rather intense guy rebuked me for "wasting my substance" - but it was a small blip on the screen. At the end of the week I joined up!
ReplyDeleteGood one, thoughtful and balanced :-)
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